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Posté le: Mar 17 Oct - 10:16 (2017) Sujet du message: Childfree because I don't want to fuck up my climbing; husba
When we got married, my husband (a non-climber) and I were in agreement that at some point we'd have kids. After getting married, however, I began climbing a little more seriously and it has become a large part of my life now. I love how my body looks, how healthy and powerful it is, and what it can do on the rocks. I also value my free time and our ability to get out of town on the weekends for climbing (for me) and hiking (us) trips. So my feelings about kids have changed and I think I've decided against ever having kids. I know, I know, there are a lot of great women climbers out there who have had kids and are still crushing and enjoying their lives. But, as an OB nurse and former nanny, I know there is a lot more to their story that you might not know about. Being pregnant and delivering a baby can fuck up your anatomy and your physiology in more ways than you think, and taking on the reponsibility of caring for another human 24/7 is the most stressful thing you can do to yourself. Understandably, my husband is upset. He has always been excited about having kids some day. I'm in my early thirties, so it's a pretty time-sensitive problem. What have been your experiences with being pregant, having a baby, being a parent, and continuing climbing?
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